How We Love - Online

Group is open

Schedule

Meets Online weekly on Wednesdays from 7:30-8:30pm

Leaders

Nicole

Location

Online

About How We Love - Online

Welcome to the "How We Love" Online Small Group! Nicole and I discovered the power of this study in our first year of marriage. We were experiencing more conflict that we were expecting. We went to a counselor. We read some books. When we sat down to read "How We Love", things started to click. We began to understand how the way we were raised determined how we receive or reject confrontation. We made adjustments and found a whole new level of intimacy. We would like to share with you what we discovered...

We meet on Wednesdays at 7:30PM Via Zoom

Here are the Dates for our Sessions:
9.17 - NO MEETING - Watch "Session 1: Three Skills for Great Relationships" on your own.

9.24 - Session 1: Three Skills for Great Relationships (watch session 2 video on your own mid week).

10.1 - Session 2: Early Development: Its Effects on Current Relationships (watch session 3 video on your own mid week).

10.8 - Session 3: Love Styles: The Avoider and the Pleaser (watch session 4 video on your own mid week).

10.15 - Session 4: Love Styles: The Vacillator & Review of Avoider, Pleaser, Vacillator (watch session 5 video on your own mid week).

10.22 - Session 5: Love Style of the Controller and Victim and Core Patterns (watch session 6 video on your own mid week).

10.29 - Session 6: Understanding Triggers and Growth Goals for Each Love Style (Watch session 7 video on your own mid week).

11.5 - Session 7: The Comfort Circle Part 1: Anna Listens to Mark (watch session 8 video on your own mid week).

11.12 - Session 8: The Comfort Circle Part 2: Mark Listens to Anna (watch session 9 video on your own mid week).

11.19 - Session 9: Holding Time and Questions

Here is what you can expect in this group:

Learn how your early life experiences create an imprint of intimacy – or love style – a blueprint that shapes your behavior, beliefs, and expectations in all your relationships, especially marriage.
Discover your love style and the root of your marriage problems.
Identify and change the core pattern in your marriage that blocks intimacy and a satisfying emotional connection.
Learn about the comfort circle and how to use it to facilitate deep conversations.
Watch Milan and Kay work with a couple as they each listen to each other, beginning with the question, “What bugs you most about me?” See how extended listening takes this couple to an entirely new level of understanding, compassion, and connection.
Watch Milan & Kay demonstrate a holding time for couples to model. This alone can take your relationship to a whole new level.

There are 9 sessions that can be streamed & viewed online:

Session 1: Three Skills for Great Relationships
Session 2: Early Development: Its Effects on Current Relationships
Session 3: Love Styles: The Avoider and the Pleaser
Session 4: Love Styles: The Vacillator & Review of Avoider, Pleaser, Vacillator
Session 5: Love Style of the Controller and Victim and Core Patterns
Session 6: Understanding Triggers and Growth Goals for Each Love Style
Session 7: The Comfort Circle Part 1: Anna Listens to Mark
Session 8: The Comfort Circle Part 2: Mark Listens to Anna
Session 9: Holding Time and Questions

This group is for ANYONE, even if you are single. I took the principles from this study and have applied them to ALL of my relationships. It has helped me become a person who loves others better. I believe the same can happen for you.

We are honored to journey with you as Holy Spirit empowers us to become everything we were made to be!